রিচার্জ ইউর ডাউন ব্যাটারি!-ঝংকার মাহবুব

 

আপনার কি কোনো কাজে মন বসে না? জীবনের ব্যাটারি কি ডাউন হয়ে গেছে? তাহলে দেরি কেনো !রিচার্জ ইউর ডাউন ব্যাটারি!
সত্যি বলতে চারদিকে হাজারো বই পাওয়া যায় মোটিভেট হওয়ার জন্য। মোটিভেট হয়ে সব সময় মোটিভেট থাকতে পারাটাই সাফল্য। বইটাতে এ ধরনের কথাই বলা আছে।

এখন বলেন না, যে ভাই ২০২১সালে এসে কেনো এই বইয়ের রিভিউ দিচ্ছেন। তো সেটা যদি বলতে হয় তাহলে আমি বলবো আমি এই বইটা ২০১৮সালে কিনেছি।জ্বি হ্যাঁ আপনি একেবারেই সঠিক শুনেছেন। অনেকদিন পর এখন আবার বইটা পড়লাম, তো আগে যেহেতু ভিডিও করার চিন্তা মাথায় ছিলোনা সেজন্য তখন ভিডিও বানাইনি।ভেরি সিম্পল, এখন আপনাদের বইটি সম্পর্কে জানানোর আগ্রহ জাগলো তাই জানাতে চলে এলাম ।

প্রথমেই এই বইয়ের কিছু ভালো লাগার অংশ বলিঃ

আমি এই বইটিকে অন্যরকম বলব কেননা বইটি গল্পের মতো করে কথোপকোথন আকারে লেখা হয়েছে। একজন বড় ভাই তাঁর ছোট ভাইকে বিভিন্নভাবে পরামর্শ দিচ্ছেন, সেটা শুনে তার কী প্রবলেম হচ্ছে আবার

সেটা কিভাবে সল্ভ করা যায় - এরকম ভাবে বইটি এগিয়েছে। আমার কাছে মনে হয়েছে আমাদের স্টুডেন্টদের মধ্যে যাদের কোনোকারণে ব্যাটারি ডাউন বা লো হয়ে গেছে তাদের জন্য আাবির নামের চরিত্রটি উত্তম মডেল হতে

"If you fall in LOVE too fast"

Don't fall in love too fast because the truth is when you fall in love too fast it does not love.

 Let me explain, nothing good in our lives ever comes from falling they say love is blind because the only time we fall is when we're blinded .when you fall in love too fast, you think you know their dreams but you just know their plans. You think you know their heart, but you just know their mind.

You think you know their past, but you just know parts.

Let the right person show you that they're the right person.

Don't simply give away your trust, let any person earn it. 

I know what it's like, it feels amazing to fall for someone quickly that adrenaline rush. But why would you want to fall for someone you don't know is going to be there to catch you? We don't just find a huge tree with beautiful fruits and flowers overnight. It takes time. No matter how much you water it, it takes time. No matter how much sunlight, you give it .it takes time. No tree overnight has the most beautiful flowers and fruits and so, neither can a relationship. It takes time .because remember, you can't eat the food the same day you plant the seed .and on the flip side, don't make someone fall in love with you if you to love them. Because guess what they won't end up questioning you- they'll end up questioning love. And I'm trying to say this for your own benefit. I want you to have incredible, meaningful, purposeful relationships. But I want them to be real, I favor them to be genuine. Because being in love isn't a mood, it is a dedication even after your temper changes and you do not figure that one month.

Personality Development

Ten things you must NEED to Develop Your Personality( Its all about my learning revision)➝

1. Proper HandShaking with the people in a program.

2. Proper EYE Contact with the people with whom you talk in Business purpose or anything else.

3. Should not chewing the chewing gum, never eat in your business, office or class program.

4. Talk properly not in upper Loud volume or Down volume that will help your opponent side to listen to your voice. Also, try to speak fluently.

5. Don't criticize your opposite side person, give them respect.

6. Wear a formal dress. It must be according to your work-related that where you work.

7. Be neat and clean. It needs no money to be neat and clean. It helps you to look good.

8. Talk properly in Your language especially in Bengali. You can follow the News channel.

9. Brush your teeth properly.

10. Be respectful to the people of all class. Give respect to all of the people.

If you're about to BREAK UP

Trust is an expensive gift which we never expect from cheap people. Love dies because of fear. It's normal to be scared of losing your partner. But in the process of being scared of losing your partner, you end up doing irrational things trying to keep them close.  We get so fixated so focused on this person who creates all those feelings all of those emotions of pain at the moment our love died but we miss the lessons. The lesson that is a fear, The lesson that is there are a misscommunication.
If you love died, find your answer in these. It will give you answer closely that the person may not be able to provide. More importantly, It will give you the courage to go forward with more strength.

Choose your PAIN ! as Right

Have any of you tried doing exercise? like, a gym workout or jogging and have realized that physical activity is painful?

Have any of you as a school or college student?

Work hard to get a good Grade and have realized that studying hard is painful?

Have any of you wanted promotional at work put in a lot of energy and realized that laborious effort is painful?

Have any of you want to save a relationship tried to keep your ego aside to adjust and realized the bending down is extremely painful?

Pain is such an integral part of life that try as hard as we may, we just cannot escape.

But we have a choice to accept the right side of pain that initially hurt but eventually heals.

That initially is uncomfortable but eventually unleashes our true potential, that initially we want to avoid but eventually very happily accept.

Or the wrong kind of pain, where the beginning is so much pleasure but in the end, life is just a pity.

In the beginning, things are so much comfortable but at the end endlessly complex.

The pain of exercise or the pain of diseases, which one will you choose?

The pain of studying hard or the pain of being unworthy- which one will you choose?

The pain of effort at work or the pain of stagnation - which one will you choose?

The pain of adjusting with a loved one or the pain of a broken heart- which will you choose?

The right kind of pain or the wrong kind of pain- you will have to choose one.

Choose the right one and live a better happy life.

Before you achieve your DREAM

If you want to be someone who travels across the world and performs you need travel one city first and perform there.
If you want to be someone who's in movies, Go and film a short movie.
Go and build the mini version of that dream, because that mini dream is going to teach you so much. 
If you do like these, you will be able to understand - What the dream looks like and not what the dream is. 
So advise you, firstly build and success your mini dream that will be able to create a number of stairs which help you to build your BIG DREAM.
Listen, It does not depend upon in what stage have you right now or what's your age.

Find the Question of - WHY

We will be able to focus anything when we realize it that " Why I need to do it, What it will pay me or what's the benefit of this work"
Like I can think- I'm here because it puts food on the table, I'm here because it pays my bills and takes care of my family, I'm here because I studied and work hard for this. 

Only then you able to increase your attraction to even the things you're totally the unfocused on, now if you found yourself distracted on focus for too long that definitely can mean you need to find more meaningful fulfilling work.✌
But no matter what you do no matter how much you chase your passion and live your purpose it will still be things you have to do on a daily basis that you don't find interesting you will feel unfocused and distracted for that ask yourself this question ----- Why am I here? Why am I doing this?
and you find your mind become attracted and become focused.🌝

~Desire is FIRST~

The starting point of all achievements is Desire.
You must have a desire to do the work, you must need an aim to get success, you need to focus to your destination from the starting.
Only your focus, your desire can help to reach the destination that you want. 
Mind that→ Pleasure of the SUNRISE and Pleasure of the SUNSET never same.
If you wanna get the pleasure of sunrise please always, always focus on your desire every time.

Take the Rejection as a CHANCE!

You should extremely be grateful that something doesn't work out the way we once wanted them to.

 When we get rejected or we fail or things don't go the way we feel we're further away from our goal. But sometimes it's in those moments that we have the greatest opportunity to reflect to refuel and to refocus. It's in those moments that feel like the death of our dreams that our truest potential is actually taking birth. If a door doesn't open It's not your door. Often we are trying to climb laters that are not ours to climb.
Is your dream really your dream?
Are you chasing what you truly want?

That pain we find our greatest power. Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on frustration. It builds on the fear that you have to overcome.