Personality Development

Ten things you must NEED to Develop Your Personality( Its all about my learning revision)➝

1. Proper HandShaking with the people in a program.

2. Proper EYE Contact with the people with whom you talk in Business purpose or anything else.

3. Should not chewing the chewing gum, never eat in your business, office or class program.

4. Talk properly not in upper Loud volume or Down volume that will help your opponent side to listen to your voice. Also, try to speak fluently.

5. Don't criticize your opposite side person, give them respect.

6. Wear a formal dress. It must be according to your work-related that where you work.

7. Be neat and clean. It needs no money to be neat and clean. It helps you to look good.

8. Talk properly in Your language especially in Bengali. You can follow the News channel.

9. Brush your teeth properly.

10. Be respectful to the people of all class. Give respect to all of the people.

If you're about to BREAK UP

Trust is an expensive gift which we never expect from cheap people. Love dies because of fear. It's normal to be scared of losing your partner. But in the process of being scared of losing your partner, you end up doing irrational things trying to keep them close.  We get so fixated so focused on this person who creates all those feelings all of those emotions of pain at the moment our love died but we miss the lessons. The lesson that is a fear, The lesson that is there are a misscommunication.
If you love died, find your answer in these. It will give you answer closely that the person may not be able to provide. More importantly, It will give you the courage to go forward with more strength.

Choose your PAIN ! as Right

Have any of you tried doing exercise? like, a gym workout or jogging and have realized that physical activity is painful?

Have any of you as a school or college student?

Work hard to get a good Grade and have realized that studying hard is painful?

Have any of you wanted promotional at work put in a lot of energy and realized that laborious effort is painful?

Have any of you want to save a relationship tried to keep your ego aside to adjust and realized the bending down is extremely painful?

Pain is such an integral part of life that try as hard as we may, we just cannot escape.

But we have a choice to accept the right side of pain that initially hurt but eventually heals.

That initially is uncomfortable but eventually unleashes our true potential, that initially we want to avoid but eventually very happily accept.

Or the wrong kind of pain, where the beginning is so much pleasure but in the end, life is just a pity.

In the beginning, things are so much comfortable but at the end endlessly complex.

The pain of exercise or the pain of diseases, which one will you choose?

The pain of studying hard or the pain of being unworthy- which one will you choose?

The pain of effort at work or the pain of stagnation - which one will you choose?

The pain of adjusting with a loved one or the pain of a broken heart- which will you choose?

The right kind of pain or the wrong kind of pain- you will have to choose one.

Choose the right one and live a better happy life.

Before you achieve your DREAM

If you want to be someone who travels across the world and performs you need travel one city first and perform there.
If you want to be someone who's in movies, Go and film a short movie.
Go and build the mini version of that dream, because that mini dream is going to teach you so much. 
If you do like these, you will be able to understand - What the dream looks like and not what the dream is. 
So advise you, firstly build and success your mini dream that will be able to create a number of stairs which help you to build your BIG DREAM.
Listen, It does not depend upon in what stage have you right now or what's your age.

Find the Question of - WHY

We will be able to focus anything when we realize it that " Why I need to do it, What it will pay me or what's the benefit of this work"
Like I can think- I'm here because it puts food on the table, I'm here because it pays my bills and takes care of my family, I'm here because I studied and work hard for this. 

Only then you able to increase your attraction to even the things you're totally the unfocused on, now if you found yourself distracted on focus for too long that definitely can mean you need to find more meaningful fulfilling work.✌
But no matter what you do no matter how much you chase your passion and live your purpose it will still be things you have to do on a daily basis that you don't find interesting you will feel unfocused and distracted for that ask yourself this question ----- Why am I here? Why am I doing this?
and you find your mind become attracted and become focused.🌝

~Desire is FIRST~

The starting point of all achievements is Desire.
You must have a desire to do the work, you must need an aim to get success, you need to focus to your destination from the starting.
Only your focus, your desire can help to reach the destination that you want. 
Mind that→ Pleasure of the SUNRISE and Pleasure of the SUNSET never same.
If you wanna get the pleasure of sunrise please always, always focus on your desire every time.

Respect Needy people

Formal education helps us to get a better job, helps to lead a better life But besides formal education it is very good needed that we must know about the minimum courtesy, manner, humanity and must have the quality that In society all of the people are same, they are also live in society, we should respect them equally.
So, we must need having these qualities to proof us a RIGHT HUMAN.

Firstly Read one book then Buy another one

A library is a much better place for thinking, in where you get pin drop silence. It's the storehouse of different books, you can dive into the ocean of books.
But you should never forget that You are in the ocean of books that not mean you are a wise person; if you don't read, study them. Having many books not means you have vast knowledge. 
So, please buy one book and read it properly before buying another one.

Letting down your parents?

We waste so many years studying something we don't care about because we care so much about those who care for us. But the challenge is our focus is fueled more by guilt than gratitude.

Our motivation is not a powerful future but actually, fear. Nothing, I mean nothing that is completed out of the intention of fear can lead to fulfillment. Our parents have sacrificed so much to get to where they are but why we are sacrificing Where we can go?

They've worked so hard to move us forward.

Why are we choosing to step backward?

And remember, we can't make anyone proud if we lose pride in what we're doing.

There's no chance we can make happy anyone happy if we're unhappy ourselves.

We think giving up on their dream will let them down, not realizing what giving up on our dreams does to us.

our parents would always want what's good for us but if we think we know what's better for us.

Don't let years go by and carry that inside yourself. We can't spend the rest of our life being tested on what we don't love.

And remember, if we don't choose to pursue our passion, we'll probably live in regret.

Have a Longing with anyone? That's for YOU!

If something holding you back, Readout this story ~

A farmer had three donkeys and was taking them for sale to the market.

On the way, he saw a river and desired to take a dip. There was an issue though. He only had two ropes and thus would be able to tie only two of his two donkeys to a tree.

He was thinking that how to tie the third one? and he wondered.

Around there he saw a wise man and approached him for a rope to tie his rest third number donkey.

The man hadn't a rope but he gave a brilliant suggestion. He told the farmer that, "Tie the two donkeys up to a tree with the ropes that you have and make sure that the third donkey is watching. Then, simply pretend to tie the third one".

The farmer followed the farmer advice and went for a dip in the river. When he came back he saw the donkeys that they still stood at the same spot where he had left them. He thanked the wise man, untied the donkeys and patted the third one.so it starts moving as well. After going a little distance, he turned around and was surprised to see the third donkey still standing at the very same spot. He tried cajoling and talking to the donkey. It didn't help. He tried to push the donkey from behind but it didn't want to move from the spot.

The helpless farmer came to the wise man and said him everything. Then the wise man again suggests him that, do the same work which you have done when you tie him. The farmer surprised! He said, I never tied him up. The man replied, you know it that but not the donkey. it still thinks it is tied up.

Then the farmer went through the imaginary motions of untying the donkey and guess what

sure enough the donkey moved immediately and walked over to join it's two friends.

What's holding us from back from moving ahead and reaching our dreams?

Is it a lack of RESOURCES, Is it a lack of OPPORTUNITIES, Is it a lack of SUPPORT or Are we tied up by an imaginary rope?

DOUBT, FEAR, HESITATION?

Yes, we certainly need to work on the external parameters needed for our success. What is even more important is that we untie our mental blocks and Expedite our journey towards our GOAL.

Take the Rejection as a CHANCE!

You should extremely be grateful that something doesn't work out the way we once wanted them to.

 When we get rejected or we fail or things don't go the way we feel we're further away from our goal. But sometimes it's in those moments that we have the greatest opportunity to reflect to refuel and to refocus. It's in those moments that feel like the death of our dreams that our truest potential is actually taking birth. If a door doesn't open It's not your door. Often we are trying to climb laters that are not ours to climb.
Is your dream really your dream?
Are you chasing what you truly want?

That pain we find our greatest power. Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on frustration. It builds on the fear that you have to overcome.

Time , Wealth & Health in our LIFE

There are three things that control our lives - TIME, WEALTH & HEALTH. 😃
When we are young, we have time to play, time to explore, time to waste, time to be curious.
When we are young - we generally have health, we have energy, we have strength but most of us don't wealth. We don't have all the money in the world, we can't buy everything we want, we don't get everything we want; we still have our health. It may not be the same but it still there. 
But we have now more wealth more money, we have a home, we have devices, we have access to the thing and so on. But we don't have always time, money can buy a house but not a home, money can buy a bed but not sleep, money can buy a book but not knowledge, money can earn a title but not respect, money can buy a clock but not time.
Those of us who think we have no time for our health will sooner or later have to find time for our illness.
When we are young we have time and health but no money, when we are older we have money and wealth but no time and finally, in old age, we have money and time but no health to use that wealth. 
SO, What do we DO?☺️
We have these all, just not having these all-time perfectly. 🌚
There are two key principles: We become successful by what we get but we become happy by what we give. And what we give includes our time, wealth, energy. 
People will forget what you did or what you gave them, you will remain in their heart by "How you made them feel "😃

So, please work for society, for the country, to make you remarked to make you remembered in people's heart after fulfilling your minimum desires thing. 
||Life is ONE make it MEMORABLE|| 🙂

Before you express your emotions to a FRIEND

Never express your emotions, your weakness to your friend. 😐
Whatever he/she is your best friend. People in the world are always like user😓, they always use you in your happiest season to fulfill their demand. Please, I say you first observe your friend step by step e.g. Is he actually your best friend.. or not.🌝
A good friend 😃can fully change your life but a foul friend can ruin your life like hell.

Friend selection is more important than a book. Because A friend with you all time⌚ in all place but a book with you for a reason for information where a friend is the Store of everything.

Power of SMILE

The most pleasing five lettered are ~SMILE~  

It increases your face value, We don't laugh on the same joke again; why do we cry on the same problem again?
We keep crying on that same issue again, on that same problem again and again and again. Problems will come, issues will come, difficulties will come, whoever you are that doesn't matter.
Funeral pyre kills somebody once, anxiety kills someone at every moment. Kills our life, kills our present.
God has a plan, an amazing plan, with all the challenges, with all the difficulties, with all the troubles that he sends our way, he has an incredible plan, None of us know what, none of us can see how, none of us can understand why, and therefore at the point of that time, all we do is cry, we can not understand the why . 

If only we understand what the plan is, even while going through that crisis, we would probably, SMILE!
That's the reason I request all of you to make a SMILE in your face.
Something that you take seriously today it is going to change tomorrow.